Ehsaas

ANOUSHKA SHUKLA

Our brain body everything even our skin is made up of chemicals, they float they provide signals to which we reciprocate, peoples touch maters peoples smell maters way of talking matter, if all this is not there than we are hopeless creatures. We need happiness we find it in any form. Whether its touch of sense of smell. Some feel happy being with their pet and some feel happy being with their loved once. Some feel happy taking drugs while get those shorts.

Whenever someone touches with care, we can sense tsunami of chemicals and we fell in deep well. From where there is no way coming out, end up sinking.

Endorphins this is released when you are in peace, primarily deals with stress. Serotonin stabilizes mood swings, Dopamine helps you keep motivated and my personal favourite Oxytocin this is released when you feel loved, pleasured.

They are the reason you feel low you feel happy, source might be any but these keep you engaged. You love people you hate some. All is because of these.

But there are some wrong sources of release as well they might include drugs, we smoke to fell blessed we drink to relax our mind. Fuck to feel relaxed.

Some people give us homely vibe some depress us lot. But believe me their chemicals are hell. They can ruin your life. Specially that favorite one. I don’t know how to control them. But I believe finding peace in terms of meditation is the best source. Rather than indulging in false and harsh believes such as love. You are left broken and depress

Every creature in our universe deserve to live, from an ant to a tiger. All of them have right to live. From sapling to a tree everyone should survive.

But the question arises are they surviving, are they living there life best, are we thinking about their lives?

And when it comes to answer we are blank. From our furniture to our food, we are dependent. We are dependent on this mother nature. And we are destroying them for our sake.

There are some instances, where wild animals are sported in human lands. Poachers murder them, and their lives are in danger. What may be the reason for their invasion to urban land? The answer is just in front of me, I have a copper bottle, copper comes from the ore of Malachite, which need to be dug. For which we invade and dig jungles. We destroy natural habitat for living creatures. One more example is ring which I am wearing Dimond, they  are reserved deep into earths crust. Which need to be dug  and made a way, for which we are disturbing natural habitat. Our forests they are dying.

Recently there was controversy related to Dimond mining in Buxwaha forest in MP. But if this natural resource will be destroyed then how will our creatures survive. Forest life will die, flora and fauna will be in danger, many wild animals will vanish. We have seen recently many people died because of lack of oxygen. We are digging our own grave.

If we spot any animal, we kill them, rather saving them. We should save them.

We should stand together to save our flora and fauna.

Cdt. Anoushka Shukla

MCU NCC

MP20/SWA104668

4 MP Bn. Ncc Bhopal

Word atam means “self” and nirbhar means “dependent”, so the heading quote self-dependent India.

In one of his speeches PM, Narender Modi quoted the above phrase. And asked all of us to think about, the concept of make in India, vocal for local and many more flourished.

But the main topic of discussion is are we working on it. If we want to become dependent then we need to set up many infrastructures, we need things in black and white. We want investors, we need to change the mindset, we need to work on skills and most important we need to support local art and new startup ideas

Still, we are dependent, if we want to grow as a developed nation, we need mass support, we want our tech graduates to live in here, to invest their skills for the homeland. Then only we can dream of a self-dependent nation

We need to set up manufacturing units, we need to hire professionals. we need a proper channel. But the question arises how are we going to achieve it

And the answer is not so easy, but interesting

Like for example rather than buying fashionable clothes from foreign brands we can choose khadi, or rather than buying expensive chemical florescent we can adjust with itr, or rather than buying Gucci we can settle with a jute jhola

This is how we are going to achieve this big dream of our honorable prime minister. This will show a rapid increase in GDP as well.

In the end, try to Suttle with local whether it is the food of clothes, whether it is toys or cars, or whether it is watch or mobile if you and I will get satisfied with our country’s goods then we will become self-dependent or atam nirbhar

Thank you

I face it every day!

You face it every week!

Few faces it every month!

Some face it once in a year!

But all of us must have faced it once in our life!

Kudos to them those who haven’t faced it yet, I hope you will never face it. Bit sorry I can only hope can’t assure. Because we are in 21^st century and then to we are still facing it. There is not a single day when I can’t sleep dreaming of fear, fear of being choaked, fear of being molested, fear of being unspoken, fear of being raped.

People always blame me, they say I am extrovert, or I am seeking someone’s attention by wearing short cloths, putting lot of makeup narrates I am that “S” girl.

Excuse me!!

You are seeing me with that vulgar thought. You are thinking and taking it wrong. I guess it is well quoted “all men are dog” but not all some are!!

If I am liking you photo that means I am wanting it, if I smile at you that means I am willing for it, if I am talking to you that means I am interested, if I stocks you that means I am liking you.

But if I say sorry you get it wrong. “Will you agree?”

I get dm of d**k pics, I get dm of vulgar double meaning messages, I get dm of proposals, I get dm of people asking for nudes. From where you all get courage to do so. All of us get molested, some get abused at work place and walks away. Some ignores post marital rapes. Few chose silence as her dignity. Few slaps and become that bold one. Few trusts someone and called whore. Some still fear of sharing it. And many more didn’t even know that they are being molested.

This is not my story, or of my friend. But this is reality, every woman is facing.

 “look she is talking to boss…..’ab to promotion pakka’..” “Look she is showing her cleavage……’she is a slut’…”” look she talked to me…’she is interested’…”

Some of the famous quotes!

But I am talking to you normally. Brest is another part of my body, can we please normalize them. I communicated with you generally, why did you interpreted it wrong? Then society blame “us”. For being raped, for being molester, for being abused. And we are still living in fear. We need to teach our son what is the meaning of dignity, respect. At there basic age, we need to teach them meaning of above word. Then I think my daughter will move freely. Else I wish not to have one, if I cant assure her safety and security, then I am not one to deliver her to this shallow world, full of abuse.

At the end I would like to say just one thing. “Let me live my life, freely, without any fear, fear of being raped at 8 or 12 at night, fear of being molester at work place, fear of being abused in school, fear of being mentally or socially abused. Until when can you please answer, I have to stay indoors, but still I get abused.

Thankyou!!

Anoushka Shukla

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Women never needed an idea for empowerment they were born empower. Well, this concept came in India, a long year back. When we imprisoned them in four walls of society. They some how managed to live their life being stressed, being tortured, being molested, being week and being selfless. But, until when? This question arises and the answer flops in “women empowerment”.

Women empowerment is modern concept, where modern women merge it with fake feminism, they think being drunk is empowerment, being bad ass is empowerment, being immoral is empowerment, being selfish is empowerment, wearing short cloths is empowerment, and disrespecting other gender is empowerment. Sorry, dear ladies you are wrong. This was never phrased as empowerment. Empowerment comes when you respect, when you question, when you walk along, when you maintain your dignity, when you keep knowledge, when you can speak up, and most important when you are independent.

Women need support, men need support, children need support, homoserines need support, amphibians need support, vertebrates need support, this phrases every living creature need support. This does not mean they are week they just need a bit of support. And as bird support their little ones to fly men should support women and women should support men, so that they can fly together. We are incomplete being alone we are just complete with each other’s support.

If we support women, she can become prime minister and believe me no one can beat her. She is born to be a multitasker she can be both mother and prime minister because she was born empower. There is no need to empower them, they need to live their life as they wanted, they need to choose their life as they wanted. They should feel independent to make their decisions. They need to spread their wings they need to think out of the box.

It is necessary to get out of dominant society, muscularity is a threat to the society. Male ego is threat they think we women need them, but they need us. We women can run or ruin their life. Their existence is in four chambers of law, their ego is losing the battle. And then faking being broad minded their mentality is shallow. They can’t see women flying, empowering themselves, making their name.

But women empowerment is necessary, their empowerment starts from their very young age, they should be treated equally, even our paradoxical society have fixed gifts for children thinking they need to cook in future gifting them with kitchen sets, we as an adult ignores these small things but it matters. What we teach in early stages stays forever, we can’t see them playing with cars, bikes and buses. But except them to have family, bring up kids this is where equality lacks. We women actually need equality not empowerment. We women want to move freely without fear of being molested, of being disrespected, of being shown week.

On a concluding note I would like to quote “there is no need of empowerment we are born being one, but there is need to vanish male dominancy in the society.”

जन्म देने वाली स्त्री जननी के रूप में पूजी जाती है । परंतु जिसकी पूजा हो उसका अनादर नहीं किया जाता!फिर क्यों उस जननी, माता ,स्त्री, जग चालक, मां का  अनादर अपमान होता आया है?

हर स्त्री चाहे आपकी मां, बहन ,अर्धांगिनी  या कोई सखी ,सब अपने में ममता की मूरत लेकर जन्म लेती है। क्या किसी एक दिन, या नो दिन पूजना काफी है ?ऐसी देवी को जो धूप-छांव,दिन-प्रतिदिन, सुबह-शाम समर्पण की भावना से निस्वार्थ सेवा करती है।दरअसल मेरे ख्याल में मां पूजनीय है इसीलिए प्रतिदिन ही हमें उसको याद रखना चाहिए, शायद उसी की दुआओं का असर है हम इस संसार में निडर जीवन यापन कर रहे हैं।

स्त्री किसी ना किसी रूप में हमारी रक्षा करने के उद्देश्य से जन्म लेती है परंतु क्या हम उसकी रक्षा करने में समर्थ है? विचार करिए? स्त्री की दुर्दशा पौराणिक काल से होती आ रही है। शायद उसका ही प्रतिरूप आज के समाज में दिखता है। तभी तो ना मा की इज्जत होती है, ना बहन की ,और तो और बेटी की, हर दिन अभद्र भाषा का प्रयोग कर हम अपनी जननी, उस शक्ति का अपमान करते हैं जिसने इस संसार को राह दिखाई इसको पूर्ण किया।

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उस मां के बिना…

Anoushka shukla

ऐसी कितनी ही घर है जहां मां दिन रात लगी रहती है ।उसका बचपन पिता की छाया में बीता, यौवन पती की सेवा में और बुढ़ापा पुत्र के कंधों पर । फिर भी अपनी ख्वाहिशों को मार जी रही है इतने बलिदान करके भी वह अहंकार नहीं करती।

अंत में यही कहना चाहूंगी सभी स्त्री जननी यानी जन्म देने वाली होती है इसलिए सभी को मां समझ के आदर देना योग्य कार्य है । और जिस संस्कृति में हम पले बढ़े हैं वहां तो धरती को भी माता का रूप दिया है , इसी नियत से हर स्त्री का आदर करें।

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